They did both - that went toward groceries AND it gave me hope! <3 Thank you.
I'm sorry that we have so much terrible stuff in common, though. Our health system REALLY needs improvement. And doctors who listen, and who are given time to listen, and if all their patients are getting blown off instead of helped, we should get to leave them shitty reviews which cost them patients somehow. Currently, people go to whatever doctor happens to accept their insurance, and there is no recourse if they suck ass but didn't break the law to lose their license. If people were free to go to whatever doctor they wanted - there might be some repercussions for being a condescending asshole. ;)