" to imagine the pain of others is a tremendous gift you can give them. Understanding is another name of love. If you don't fully understand, then you can't love ". word from the master thích nhất hạnh.
Today I share about skills I dedicated that's listening skills actively. Level Fundamental to human understanding. Before I always think I did good listening skill positive and understand others well. But after all the study at home, you're actually listening skill I need to improve to better again. We didn't still have the listening lacks focus, listen under one eye is judging and not ready on opposite opinions of others. Because then I think to make clear what it means to listen to in the positive will help us in understanding others, understands my ups, needs of customers, insight into the person you love. Special is one of the platforms we happy to help in every relationship, life.
This post will help us answer these questions: how is listening to positive, one of the benefits of listening to get back and you came to help us practice listening skill successfully
1, first listen to positive, it means that we are with what you hear with your ears, channel all attention, engaging eyes, body language towards the audience are talking and sharing. Next to us remember these points or in their story and ready to respond to the problems that we don't know, they really need to dig deeper.
2, means there's work to listen to positive bring meaning back into two sides people talk and people listen. First of all who share when will feel sincerity, excitement of listeners, ready to continue to collect feedback from them, dig deep problems. From there to help them get out of the corner next to a lot of problems, to figure out a way to deep. Monday of listening will be receiving a new knowledge, new ideas from that can be able to apply what we learn with, to listen, in business and life.
So why do we have to listen to positive? Listen to positive is one of the basis of work figuring it out on people. The essence of understanding is when we actually put yourself in their position and turned them into an ally. Through Dialogue, interacted with each other, help us step take, understand how they think and act. Help us paint a portrait of the personality, behaviour and understand them more deeply.
Thểliệt we have list a lot of pain or lack of power not good listening skill effectively influence how relationships usually see around us.
- sales people often complain work customers not listening to me complain, no open exchange part needs, words that lead to failed to sell. Cause here is the salesman didn't listen to customer actively to understanding customer needs. The final goal of they only care about how to sell a lot of drugs, skip work and soul nourishing their feelings is hard to build relationships deep with customers
- the end of the day after a day at work busy. After doing about wife every man back in the business of my own, is not meant for each other when sitting together listening to positive and sharing the love, sad, angry, please hear me in the relationship when Meet the winds and the waves will barely hold
- after day shift friends we met at the bar drinking a few drinks would be to destroy, but annoying, tulle, resist compression of jobs, bring back to life. We sit together just to brag, chatting each other useless stuff, who's hard to tell, but the lack of listening and understanding, love you too, will one day fade
Is it true that if we practice listening skill positive and nourishing others good will bring effective immediate for conversation, avoid conflict, not worth it. From there we will enjoy the benefits of the job, relationship, life from the back
3, to help you guys can practice and practice listening skill positive a simple and effective. I'm divided body step to get this skill
Step One: Focus. We'll focus on history, ideas. Use effectively work toward people speak with the language. Maintain eye contact, people on their side, nod, agree, and matching expressions
Step Two: receive information in a way positive, no judgment, prejudice and accepted with all other opinions, can be left with your thoughts
Step Three: there is positive feedback, constructive high, don't criticize, criticize another person opinion
This is a few ideas to share about the importance of job brings positive listening to understand and simple step to practice this skill.
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