I did that, it didn't work out. It was supposedly a two way process, the takes-two-to-tango kind of thing, but it was perceived differently and negatively. Sometimes it's a curse that i learned how to speak my mind so freely that people think I'm demanding but no, it's just letting them know what i want and what upsets me, just like me wanting and needing to know what will upset them and try to avoid doing those things but then again... 
