Ever think of life as, that's just how it's meant to be? Not many people do. They think life has to do with a bunch of things they aren't ready for.
I knew a guy once, who said what if a broken typewriter is meant to be that way. It's perfect. It's working as designed. It's not broken at all. It was never meant to work.
Now that's an interesting thought. I mean, who wouldn't want everything to be perfect like that? I sure would. Just having the thought that everything works out the way it's meant to...yep. I like that idea. It's not ideal of course. People don't end up having the same thoughts as others.