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Dear friends 😊❤️
How are you all? I hope you all are safe and taking care of yourself and your family.
Friends going through the several experiences of life sometimes we unable to take a proper decision for ourselves.
During childhood, when someone asked what they like to become?
Every time, maximum children changed their answers.
Sometimes they want to be a doctor or an engineer or a teacher, or a pilot, and so on.
But now I understand this kind of doubtful thoughts does not happen only with the children.
But it also happens to many younger people;
who didn't understand what exactly they want to become in their life?
Today I like to say we must observe our children as responsible parents from their childhood.
Many times parents try to fulfill their self wishes and dreams through the children.
But every time that is not correct, we utterly need to understand what our children like to do or in which studies they are taking an interest.
Being responsible parents our one of the responsibilities is to respect and understand our children's desires.
Maximum times that is the reason a child can't choose their future goal.
They become confused, and their life becomes blurry.
At this point, parents should take the responsibility to help them to adjust their focus towards their life.
One more thing has commonly been seen in many families.
If there is more than one child and one of them is studious and doing great result in school;
but another one is average in the study; parents always give the preference to the academic child.
And another child maximum time neglected by the parents.
Being a social worker, I saw this kind of child abuse and domestic violence cases where a child went through mental trauma.
The reality is parents do not try to find out or do not wants to focus on the other talents of their children apart from study.
Today I like to ask every parent; What do you think? If Sachin Tendulkar's parents do not encourage him to play cricket, we can't get a fabulous cricketer like Sachin.
There are many other examples too.
Nowadays, thought processes changing in parents.
And that is a good sign for the next generation. Please do not treat your children like a wish-fulfilling box.
When our children's life becomes blurry, we require to adjust their focus.
That's all from my side today. Take good care of yourself. Love you all.