There is no perfect relationship, i do agree with that. But we can make an almost perfect relationship, it depends on how we deal and handle our relationship with our partner. Being in a relationship is not a joke, it has a lot of responsibilities, it has a lot of obligation and challenges.
However, it is our nature as a human to get involved into this kind of thing or else, life will get boring. Despite of those responsibilities and challenges we are able to find the best partner in life to be called our husband or wife.
I been into relationship since i was in college, i met the man that i never thought he will be my lovers for 12 years and we soon end our girlfriend/boyfriend relationship and settle down for a lifetime bonding called family. I am happy that we are able to surpass those challenges and maintain the harmony within our relationship.
I will be sharing to you the most important things we did in our relationship why we able to survived for 12 years and finally settled down for good.
Take note, it is normal in relationship to have misunderstanding, quarrel and sometimes leading to break ups. It is part of the challenges, however..its up to you both, on how you will handle this kind of situation.
Knowing the weaknesses of your partner
It is very important to know more deeper about your partners, especially their weaknesses. It's only you who can lift him/her up during the time of his/her weaknesses.
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I remembered when i was so depressed, because my grandmother died. My boyfriend was always there to cheer me up and lifting me up when im down. Despite of depression,he able to find ways to maintain the single happiness in my face.
Knowing the weaknesses of your partner is the key to control misunderstanding and also one way to know where to strengthen your partner.
By boyfriend knows if i need more strength, that would be the time he will buy a my favorite foods.
Respect everyone decisions
We have our own decisions in life, but always share it to your partner. Respect the decision whatever it is and support if the it is for good.
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In decision making, it is not just one party will decide. It is should be agreed by both parties. To have a strong relationship, it must have the respect when it comes to decision making. Sometimes conflict started in relationship, if someone will opposed and no one will give way.
To avoid this conflict, we must have the respect whatever plans and decision of our partners if we think it is for good.
We are open to any plans we have, i always asks for the guidance and approval from my boyfriend whatever plans it is and he respected it, i am doing the same thing as well.
Always have God in your relationship
God is the center of everything. In relationship, put place in the center for God. You blessed to have him/her because you prayed for it and God answered your prayer.
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Going to church with your partner is one best way to strengthen your relationship and your spiritual life. God enlighten our mind, give us wisdom to understand what is right and to avoid what is wrong. Most of the couple who have God in their relationship are happily ever after.
I always set time in every week to go to church with my boyfriend. This is our time to served God and give thanks for all the blessings in our life.
Bonding with the family and friends for your partners.
Why bonding with the family of your partner or friends is also one best way to strengthen relationship? Its one way of introducing your partners to his/her friends and family. It is just simple act of saying, you are proud of him or her as being his or her partner
Knowing the friends and family of your partner is indeed one best way of getting closer to them. As what they saying says, "tell me your friends are and i will tell you who you are". In this way, you will know who are the friends of your partner. Getting to know with them and have them know you is the best way to enhance your relationship.
Strong relationship is what we are looking for, you can do a lot of things to have it...
Except from what you read above, which are based on my own and personal experiences you can also do with your own perceptions and own ideas. Making a strong relationship always started within yourself. It's both of you can make the best relationship in the world. If time comes that you will be shaken by the challenges, its both of you who will be together standing still, or giving up.
