The good times were good because you don't like reinventing yourself and letting your own responsibility screw them up.Have someone take a closer look at you to see why your engine runs Who doesn't like? They were fun for a while until they weren't anymore.
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they kept you on your toes. they played a trick on you They lived secret lives and challenged you to do better. They wanted you to try harder. They expected you to please them. They didn't thank you, compliment you, or take you to the celebration.
I want a grown up spoiled brat who can't be nice to anyone. Someone who takes pride in how much they can be hurt. Good never outweighs evil. Kindness never forgets the loss of time and money, friends, health and material things in your life.
Make it black and white so the truth can really be seen. You're probably excluding the worst and making the rest less harmful than before. So take a thank you note and let them know how happy you are for going out of their way.
You've found enough narcissists to last a lifetime so you can cross them off your list. I hope it goes well for you.