I feel like I'm being raped': Kendra Wilkinson accuses mother Patti of being a 'sadistic abuser' during emotional episode of Kendra On Top
Kendra Wilkinson has called her mother a 'sadistic abuser.'The reality star, 30, told her aunt Kristin she felt like she was being emotionally 'raped' whenever she deals with her mother Patti.'I can't deal with my mom anymore because I feel like I'm being raped every minute with my mom,' she stated on the latest episode of her WE TV show Kendra On Top. 'She is the most sadistic abuser,' added the former Playboy model.
Kendra and her mom Patti have long had a troubled relationship. The two had a big fight during Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars earlier this year.The reality star also said her mother - a former Philadelphia Eagles cheerleader - had 'emotional f***ed' her in recent years, especially after Kendra's marriage to Hank Baskett.'It's just hard because, we're adults, and no one believes adult abuse,' she said. 'Do you know what I'm saying? I truly was emotional f***ed,' Kendra said.
Kendra told her aunt: 'I'm proud of myself. And I'm not going to let one person tell me anything else.'Surprised, Kristin asked, 'You think she's not proud of you?'Kendra shook her head and replied, 'No.'
The Dancing With The Stars alum also revealed she'd reached out to her mother to try to get them into therapy to work on their issues, but had been rebuffed.It seems their relationship took a turn for the worst after Kendra wed Baskett in 2009. The couple, who were rocked by Hank's cheating scandal, have two children, one-year-old daughter Alijah Mary and five-year-old son Hank Baskett IV.Her grandmother told Kendra that her mom felt left behind.
'I still talk to my grandma and she was telling me, 'You know it was really hard for your mom when you got engaged and when you got married because she feels like she lost her daughter,' Kendra told her aunt.'I did a lot of reaching out,' Kendra insisted.'I did a lot of offering for therapy and my mom just never accepted that. Never reached out. Never accepted what I would think would help us. There was a lot of my side trying and not a lot of her side trying.'
While her aunt was sympathetic, and revealed that she too had had a lot of anger towards her mother, which made her treat her mom badly while she was dying, she urged Kendra to make amends while she still could. 'It was so weird because the minute that I heard she died, all the anger and everything went away to the point of amnesia,' Kristin told her Kendra.'Like if you were to ask me now what I was angry about, I couldn't tell you,' she said, as a somber Kendra listened.
'I think while somebody is alive, if there's any way - any way - to salvage the relationship, for you, not for them,' she counseled her niece.Kendra and her mom had a falling out thanks to a massive fight in 2013. 'She did tell me she hated me, she called me all kinds of names. She ended it with "I hope you die." I wouldn’t tell my worst enemy I hope you die. Much less your mother,' Patti told RadarOnline at the time.
Patti later took to Facebook to share her feelings, saying she had been 'hurt & disrespected.'However, they appeared to have made up - until the dramatic meltdown on Marriage Boot Camp in May.During that fight, Kendra accused her mom of selling stories about her marriage troubles to the tabloids, prompting her mom to threatened to release their private texts to the media.
On Thursday the star put on a brave face as she stepped out for lunch with a friend in West Hollywood. She met with friends at Bel Bambini, raising a smile as she headed out make-up free in the Californian sunshine. The television personality showed off her ample cleavage in a skimpy vest top, teamed with skin tight black leggings.
The mum-of-two was quick to coo over her friend's newborn baby in arms, which perhaps made her feel a little broody as she then instagrammed a shot of her own daughter as a newborn baby, cradled on her son's chest. She captioned the shot: 'Wow! It seems like yesterday. Their bond is so strong! I love them both so much! #TBT #Family.'Kendra in a preview of Friday's episode of Kendra On Top also revealed that she was once a lesbian, according to an article by Us Weekly.'I dated a girl. In high school, I dated a girl [for] like two weeks,' Kendra told a pal.She also revealed that her ex-girlfriend called off their short romance.