i've had a really limited tolerance for white guilt for the past few years, ever since getting to a better place on my own white guilt (which wasn't easy!). i wish more people leaned into theirs and did the work that you've done to read and to think and to reflect. and I wish i were better at midwifing other white folks thru these contractions! but it's hard to soothe existental threat, which unfortunately seems to be bound up in whiteness for so many