Each of us need a change in one way or the other. In order to reach where you're dreaming to, you have to let go off some behaviors, friends, even relatives, because the kind of friends you're hanging with, behavior, will determine your result.
Among all the birds that exist on planet earth, there is one that has amazed me and that I took time to study fo many years, and that is the Eagle.
The Eagle can live up to 70 years. But to reach this age, it is not easy, the Eagle must make a hard decision.
In its 40th year, its long and flexible talons can no longer grab prey which serves food
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Its long and sharp beak bent, the feathers become old, thick and heavy. The thick and heavy feathers stick to its chest and makes it difficult to fly
Then, the Eagle is left with only two options DIE or go through a painful process of CHANGE. The process requires that the Eagle fly to a mountain top and sit on its nest
Then the Eagle knocks its beak against a rock until it plucks out. Then it will wait for a new beak to grow back and then it will pluck out its talons. When its new talons grow back, the Eagle starts plucking its old-aged feathers. And after this, the Eagle takes its famous flight of rebirth and lives for 30 more years
Why is change needed for the Eagle? To survive and live. We too have to start the change process unlike the Eagle. We have to pluck out unpleasing memories, bad habits, negative friends, and fixed mindset if we want to get a better result.