Alright, perhaps we can start with why its ok to callously disregard the welfare of children by stating 'they knew the risks'?

If you arent prepared to gain the new facts there is little point in discussing our differences of opinion.
I will lead you to ideas that you have been intentionally kept from you, but its going to be up to you to do the reading.

For my part, i will be as concise as possible, but soundbites are not going to fully transmit 200 years of critical thinking purposely omitted from your indoctrination.
It has taken me decades to go from your position to mine, perhaps you can read and assimilate the ideas faster, but it will still take a dedicated effort on your part.
You dont yet know how wrong you are, i had some idea, that is why i sought the knowledge on my own.

I fully expect you to drop out, but the seeds will have been planted.
If your ideas have to be enforced by violence, your ideas suck, and so do you,...