Relationships are not that easy to deal . They would say it takes two to tango . If you are in a relationship and you are just the only one who is putting an effort well it may not end up in a good result. It might be a fail or if you are lucky it would be successful . It usually depends on the situations . These are my own ways or tips just to make a relationship work:
Open communication. You should always tell your partner how you feel. The things that are bothering you. Tell them. Do not make them read your mind.
You should always share your feelings if somethings is bothering you . Always be open to discussion because you might end up misunderstanding some things and it may lead to saying bad things to each other.
Consistency. Always be consistent.
You should not change what your decisions is . Be firm and if you decide on something stick to it .
Make efforts. You have to win her every single day.
Surprise your partner even for small things. Don't forget to make an efforts. Saying I love you and showing her feel you loved her .
Be patient with each other. Both of you will have bad days. Both of you have darkest side. One should compliment the other.
All relationships are not perfect so you can some bad days and sometimes you can have have misunderstandings at these times . You should compliment and cheer up each other. Try to encourage each other to be much better.
Be loyal. Be faithful. Do not engage with other people anymore.
This is the most important don't cheat . Don't communicate with other people and stay loyal if possible.
Appreciate each others efforts. Appreciate even the simplest things.
Always say thank you in a very simple things and of course complimenting each other can make everyone happy in a relationship.
Lower down your pride and ego. Say sorry if needed but you should not always resort to that. Learn from your mistakes.
Each one of us has a lot of pride. Even though you know that you committed a mistake, say sorry immediately and learn from that .
Forgive. Always be the bigger person.
Forgiving is not an easy thing but even God can forgive of course we can too. Even if they don't say sorry , just forgive first and don't hold any grudges. If you have a fight , solve it before the day ends.
Understand that both of you have flaws and that at some point your expectations will never be met.
We are not perfect so we sometimes our expectations to our partner will never be met so don't be disappointed . Teach your partner new things and share each other's wisdom to be mature together.
Pray.
Remember that God is always the center in your relationship. Always pray and ask for his guidance.
I hope these tips can help in making your relationship work. :) I hope you can enjoy this and good luck . Spread love to everyone . ❤