Believe me, more people than you expect have a similiar problem, but in my opinion the real problem isn't by you or your family, it's the society in these times where people work more and more and have to make career and so on.

I think this spirit of the age have a negative influence on a lot of humans and it can be wholesome when we not to adept to these times in all, anyway for some years it was good for me to meet this decision.