Acceptance is the first choice should make when someone wants to be healed
-E.M. Ollitsub
Ola mi amigos, mi amigas! Good day to my fellow steemians out there and my fellow ULOGgers! This will be my 6th entry for my ULOGs but my 4th entry for my specific topic which are my self-realizations. Before I will begin on my next ULOG entry, I hope you were able to read my past few ULOGs that are interconnected with these series (My Self-Realizations). If you haven't, then drop down your cursors into the titles, Never Lose Yourself, Be Patient and Learning to Let Go .
With this, allow me to continue with my fourth realization which is about Acceptance
Acceptance Will Set You Free
It may be a cliche but we can only unchain ourselves from the past if we learn to accept the reality! Letting go is very hard to do when we have not give credence that everything must be settle into its right place.
There are really things that are very hard to accept and sometimes it gave us unanswered questions which sometimes loosen us on the right track. The past that we have can only fall into two categories - the good ones and the bad ones. As human as we are, the good ones are worth remembering for. It gives us the assurance of being happy and joyful for once. It gives us the fulfillment we want to feel. On the other hand, there are the bad ones, however not all the bad ones worth to be forgotten. Sometimes those needs to be accepted, accept that it is part of who we are today and who we will be for tomorrow. That is why there is a thing called acceptance. At first, this might gradually kill us but trust me, it will eventually heal us with time. Allow yourself to accept and heal gently, these things does not need an abrupt action. It takes time as it is.
And I am with you, I personally know how can this be hurtful because I have been into that series of pain. But I will assure you that it is worth the pain after all. After you can accept it a hundred percent, and healing is directly proportional to it. The feeling of freeing yourselves from the pain and the past will all be worth it of what you've been. It is like getting the sharp object that is buried in your heart a long time ago. Being free is equivalent on allowing yourself to be ready on what is ahead of you. So never incarcerate yourself for the future that might be greater than what you think.
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Let me drop down the things I had discussed on my previous Ulog Realizations. This is to better interconnect things from one topic to the other and to avoid loss track from the readers. This is just a little grasp on the topic which I have written and shared.
- Losing yourself is your own prerogative, hence, the consequences it can give will always hit you as it is. Nevertheless, why do we lose ourselves? In my own experience, I lose myself due to loving someone more than I should have. This is due sometimes in the event of loving someone that we tend to forget ourselves. But as I said, it is totally a choice to make. Just make sure that you won't lose yourself and hold on to what you dream of for the first place. For me, there is no such valid reason to lose ourselves.
- All of us gone into different way of sacrifices just to gain what we dream of, however, your right time will matter. You may be the winner or the loser, nevertheless, Be patient if you lose the game. Maybe the next time you'll try it, you will have a greater reward. Accept that it is not your time and just continue on dreaming. Never give up and be patient.
Letting Go
-Letting go means you learn to make a difference for yourself and to that someone/something, it is accepting that thing happens accordingly to the will of universe. It is allowing yourself to heal and accept the veracity of the situation.
I want to bid for goodbye for now and see you on my next ULog posts.
