一些美丽的话--婚姻篇
Some beautiful words about marriage
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Before I got married one of my relatives who had been divorced gave me advice, he said "Always give your wife the best of you, the mistake I made was assuming that I could just give what's left and that would be enough."
结婚前，我一位离异的亲戚给了我一些建议。他说，“总是把最好的你给你的妻子，我的错误是我以为把我的空余时间给妻子就足够了。”
What he meant was that he would come home late after a long day of work and only give his wife a few minutes of time before going to eat and sleep, on the weekend he would only hang out with his wife for a couple of hours before disappearing for most of the day with his friends.
他的意思是说工作了一整天之后，他回家已很晚了。在吃饭睡觉前，只能给他的妻子几分钟时间。周末，与朋友厮混消失之前，只会陪妻子一两个小时。
Eventually it was the constant distance not just physically but emotionally and spiritually that erased the feelings they had for each other, the love that existed had gone.
最后，不仅现实上的距离，更是情感上的距离抹去了他们彼此的感觉，渐渐爱已成往事。
There is a reason they say that family is the most important thing, because when you put your family first everything else seems to fall in place so beautifully, things feel right, you feel that no matter how bad things get in every other part of your life you still have a home filled with love, you still have open arms ready to comfort you when you get home, and you still have the people who love you most ready to support you and make you strong again.
(所以)人们说，最重要的事情是家庭不无道理。因为当你把家庭放在首位时，别的事情就会自然而然地各就各位，一切是那么美好。因为你知道不管生活里有多么坏的事情发生，你仍旧有一个充满爱的家，当你回家时，你仍旧有一双张开的臂膀预备来安慰你，你仍旧有最爱你的人儿预备来支持你，使你再次坚强。
There is a beautiful quote that I read which said a great marriage doesn't happen because of the love you had in the beginning, but how will you continue building that love till the end, and that is what we try to do, every day, to build that love till the day we are together forever in heaven inshAllah.
我读到过一句美丽的格言，说一个伟大的婚姻不在于最初的爱，而在于如何继续爱直到最后，那正是我和我妻子试图做的，每天构筑爱直到我们一起进入永恒的天国(如蒙天佑)。
