Man himself is the creator of his own destiny
Once a teacher was explaining to all the students in the class that the fate of human beings is in the hands of the human being, will keep thoughts like you or you will become like that. For example, the teacher took three bowls and put one potato in the other, the egg in the second and the tea leaves in the third. Now put water in three bowl and put them to boil on the gas. Students were looking all this surprisingly but their understanding was not coming. Twenty minutes later, when all the three utensils came to boil, the teacher landed down all the bowls and brought out potatoes, eggs and tea. Now all students were asked to look at the three carefully.
In the end, Guru Ji spoke to three children (potatoes, eggs and tea) to touch one child. When the student put the potatoes in his hands, he found that the potato was very hard before but it got very soft after boiling it in water. Now the egg raised, then the egg which was very fragile before it has now become rigid. Now, after raising the cup of tea, saw tea leaves changed their appearance in combination with hot water and now that tea was made.
Only then did Guru ji understand that we boiled the three things equally in water but when the exit came out, the three things did not get the same. The potato, which was tough, became soft, the egg became stiff in the first place and the tea leaf also changed its appearance, the same thing applies to humans as well. One man loses his patience in the tragedy, while another wise man encounters the disaster, fulfilling his goal.