This is a totally awesome post! I also feel like there are some missing milestones here. I do not feel like an adult just because I have 'come of age'. I know deep down I really do want ceremonies to guide me and for recognition from my community, in a spiritual way. Its missing, so how to replace that?

I figure the community should be the deciding factor if you reached one of these, as well as spirit, but what if the community doesnt know what is going on yet? I suppose then it falls to myself to start creating such ceremonies for myself and for others. That is a daunting task I think haha, where to start?

If you have any suggestions or ideas on the sorts of ceremonies we could create, id love to hear them so that I could have some basis for how to create my own here. I dont want to delay with this one, it feels pretty important.