I agree. I would go further to suggest that when we engage in violence we are abandoning the masculine as that energy is not violent. Instead we have wrongly associated violence with masculinity when in fact it is evil. I think most people (men and women) have no idea what divine masculine or feminine actually looks like or FEELS! We have a long way to go, but we are making progress. Ending the violence is the first step so that we can all heal and explore what these energies are. Everyone engages in violence. Not just men. ;)