When I check your reputation after reading this your words, my body just calm because it really shows me 2 things.
1, maybe you don't start well on steemit or
2, you just join and want to grow faster.

Things does not work like that here, truly it is hard but remember you don't invest in this but if you do you will definitely earn it if you know your ways, (many ways to earn on steemit) but if you don't invest then think of how you feel when you don't have much likes on your Facebook posts and you always want people to like you and comment on your post.

How many post do you yourself vote in a day, how many people do you follow and make friends with daily on steemit, you can't expect what you don't give out. Grow up is the challenge on steemit and no one have ever won that but if you're about to try sbd is the result.