Good on you! I think we all need to question our doctors sometimes to make sure we understand what treatment we are having, and why we are having it. I will certainly be questioning mine on vaccinations when we get to that stage. Sadly at the moment we are asking questions about infertility tests, already IVF is being pushed upon us! It takes some guts to push through the 'niceties' like you say, but the outcome is often informative. It would be interesting to hear what your daughter opts for, if any, and when. Best of luck with the new addition to your family!