Valentine! Valentine!! valentine!!!
Instead of been in a cool quite place expressing how much you love her and making her the most important person on earth that day, rather you introduce your family to her as a valentine gift.
I look only to the good qualities of men. Not being faultless myself, I won't presume to probe into the faults of others.
The acts of this life are the destiny of the next.
That was the last words of a lady, when her most trusted boyfriend introduced his wife and kids to her on a valentine day.
What a heartbreak,
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It is the trouble that never comes that causes the loss of sleep. Imagine being in the shoes of this girl, will you wish to leave in peace or in the mode to come over it in no time.
My fake plants died because I did not pretend to water them.
What do I mean by this quote? You got into a relationship with your dream kind of man and because of that you never bothered to know more about this mysterious man that court your feelings on a platform of being in love with you.
Please is that a good idea of a good love relationship that is to be fruitful? No!
I learned the lesson that great men cultivate love, and that only little men cherish a spirit of hatred. I learned that assistance given to the weak makes the one who gives it strong; and that oppression of the unfortunate makes one weak. That's why it's very important as a lady to love with her head instead of loving with your heart.
But I don't completely agree with that because, sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye.
Well if I happen to be in shoes of that lady, I will console myself and tell myself that, "When a thing is done, it's done. Don't look back. Look forward to your next objective.
And for a man who will do so to a lady fully knowing you have a family, well, l
have nothing to tell such men but, my father will always say,
Happiness is not achieved by the conscious pursuit of happiness; it is generally the by-product of other activities.
And if in such activities, you prefer hurting people, then be rest assured that happiness cannot be found in your life.
Well-being is attained by little and little, and nevertheless is no little thing itself......
Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine.
The mind that is anxious about future events is miserable, therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
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