A baby born is the crystalline love of the couple. It is extremely sacred, joyful and happy to be promoted to parents. But besides that, there are also many strange, strange that both make head hair mess, even inconsistencies in the process of raising children. However, the baby is not the only preoccupation at this time, but your wife needs to be equally caring and caring.
The psychology of postnatal women is markedly improved, they are easily self-deprecating. If the husband and family ignore, neglect, will cause the woman to fall into postpartum depression.
Postnatal depression is a dangerous psychological illness. People with the disease can cause many harmful behaviors that they themselves can not control. However, this disease can completely be treated, but if it can prevent this disease is of course better than having to treat it.
Here are the psychological signs of postpartum women that men need to understand and sympathize, find ways to comfort and encourage their wives, help them overcome the complexion and regain confidence as the day anyway:
She felt so ugly
Hard to understand the contradictory emotions of postpartum women. On the one hand, they are proud that their bodies can create a little spirit, on the other hand, they feel uncomfortable about the changes in the body after childbirth: cracking, body scabies, skin tingling, hair loss much ... This is the moment she is most self-deprecated appearance.
What should the husband do? Praise her by looking straight into her eyes and giving her a compliment. When she complains about a spot on her body, gently encourage her, telling her she will quickly regain her beauty. The husband should feel for his wife that she is the greatest gift God has given her.
She is obsessed with her newborn baby
After becoming a parent, both of you are in the process of adjusting to what happens to your life. But the truth is that her life has completely changed and reversed, making her so easy to become obsessed - even with the very child she was born with.
This obsession is also in the process of adaptation and the mother instinct will help her overcome it but need time.
She is always afraid
Everything is new and needs more time to experience, she is worried she will not do well. Being pregnant and giving birth to a woman is like an exam. They have nine months to review and prepare, and now they are faced with the exam. She was so nervous and anxious, she needed support and encouragement from her husband. You should use sincere love and attitude to encourage her, that everything will be okay. In this critical moment, a hug with encouragement and words of encouragement will work very well.
She will always be in a defensive state
Your mother-in-law thinks she should return to work. Her aunt encouraged her not to breastfeed for the purpose of keeping fit. Her friend gave birth to five children always give advice and catch her listening because "more experienced". Even mother-in-law wants to intervene in raising your children.
Postpartum women are under a lot of pressure from too many people around. That's why she became defensive to protect her children. You should be strong shoulders for her now that she can trust to lean on. Explain that people just care about her and the baby. She can hear but do not have to follow, every decision is still in the mother because they know how to safe for her child.
She was annoyed but she could not get angry with the baby
She fully understands the cause of her lack of sleep, ugly, mood change is due to her little baby but how can take offense on her baby. So she had to pour everything out to her poor husband. You should endure and remember to constantly comfort her. This stage will pass very quickly, do not worry.
She has nothing to wear
This is what made her so disappointed. The gowns were thrown aside, but with the postnatal body, she could not fit into her youthful clothes. Even if you offer to take her to new clothes, she will simply refuse to pay for it, and because "I'm going to get sick again."
Ok, so your task is to work out with her to get her body back, control her diet and remember to compliment her on a regular basis.
She needs to be protected
Every woman should always be protected by his men, but this will increase dramatically since they become a mother. She needs a husband to be a safe barrier to keep her away from the outside world. For example, she is not ready to entertain anyone at home, so you should not invite guests. When there is something that makes her nervous, she always expects you to say, "Let me handle it."
She needs a break
Any mother thinks that she is a superhero, maybe 3 heads 6 hands do everything. Holding too many things can overwhelm her and become irritating. Ask her to take a break and you will share her home with her. If she is still "stubborn", say gently that you just want to share responsibility and protect her health only.
She wants you to know that she loves you so much
She was happy to see the picture you watched the baby sleeping. She is happy to see you change positively since becoming a father. You can say that since she gave birth to baby, she feels much more loved. It is not wrong when people say: "A child born can save the love of the couple." Without saying anything, she really loves you so much.
Through the article above we can see the psychology of women change dizzy after birth, but do not be too anxious, things will improve and adapt over time. As long as the husband is willing to pay attention to his wife, she will regain her form and be happy as her son.
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