You know, idiot? Yesterday she said to me, "You should not love a guy of the same age. By doing so, will take many disadvantages.
When you are in trouble, he will not be able to help you. At the same age, older people are sometimes more children. He will, at times, reveal the "raw" figure of a stupid child no less.
When two people argue, he will not be mature enough to avoid hurting his children. Do not understand much about love, sometimes he will let his ego dominate. And at times like that, you will warm up a lot.
When jealousy, he'll go crazy. Not mature enough to tame those strange emotions. Maybe he'll be angry, annoyed or forbid you. And, in that case, I have no choice but to listen.
There are many, many great things my daughter. A guy of the same age has too much interest and maybe you will never get first priority. Think, will you accept these things? "
I was thinking a lot about my mother's words. And I realized that ...
A guy of the same age, not always able to help me solve the difficulties. But he gives me confidence, that I will definitely surpass them. He laughed when he smiled, sadly crying and worried when he was tired. He is willing to give up the fun with you to come to me. He rushed out into the windy road to come to me when I was desperate. And, well, that's more meaningful than anything else.
A guy of the same age, sometimes because of self-respect that hurt you. But then, he always showed me that he was more important than that little childish pride. When the anger was over, he did all the way just to see me smile. He scratched his head scratching his ear to forgive me. And, that smile made me melt away.
A guy of the same age, will not be able to keep calm when jealous. But that proves that I mean so much to him. And despite being angry, he still worries for me, still remember the message good night to sleep. And, losing a little freedom to get that much attention, I think it's worth it.
A guy of the same age, not always the first priority. He can not live without his friends, so not to miss a football match. But he never forgets me because of those things. He still remembers calling me early to sleep if he's late. He was still driving for a dozen miles from the school to give him breakfast when the stomach pain recurred. He always said, no matter what, he is still the most important person. And, to me, that is quite enough.
Of course, I know, a guy of the same age is much to blame. But every day, I am proud to see you grow up and only love for me is not changed. And I'm ready to wait for the day he really grows, to let me take this love to the boat.
So, I will say to Mom: Right now, I feel so happy to have chosen you, a-guy-of-age!