There are reasons the military bars officers from having sexual relationships with enlisted. There are reasons bosses are not supposed to have sexual relationships with their employees. You can write a wall of text if you want, but just say you disagree with the reasons. Most people do not though. They see those situations for what they are. It is inappropriate not because any law says it is. It is inappropriate because the two people involved are not equals. A 14yo is not even close to an equal to a 25yo. Change the ages to 25 and 34 though, and it is a completely different situation.