Some people love you just because they need your help. Don't let this bother you. This is life. And when you find that one person that is willing to give you completely, embrace them and love them.
This morning has been great. Let me wish you first a Happy New Month as you go on with those blissful experiences packed up for you.
Moving forward.
Since you are here, let me tell you what I have learnt today from a quote someone said he had seen on Facebook. Apparently, this friend is in between relationships. Struggling to know the girl out of many girls flocking around him.
Something we often struggle with, is knowing the one that is ours to love. You know sometimes you love for convenience's sake. You do love genuinely but not for the sake of love.
"It is not everyone that comes into your life that is looking for love. Some are just looking for help."
Yeah, 'help' may take up different shapes just the same way men/boys take up different shapes to steal the hearts of girls and 'vis a vis.' But then you must be wise to tell them apart, whom to love and whom to offer help.
Now the dilemma is knowing who falls where.
If you were my friend, and you are in this place as he is, you soon tell the difference by the constant goings and comings of those that claim to love you. Yes, they love you, but not enough to stay. They just love you enough to admit that you are the only one they can run to when they need someone to help.
This is good too. But you will be making a huge mistake by assuming that it is love. It may be a relationship of 'the mentor and the mentee.'
Don't get me wrong. Some persons have found love this way, but I just believe that waiting for this person to someday realize you are the one for them, is a futile journey to embark on. However, if you have 'the leading' to wait for them, that is better.
Do enjoy and be kind to share your thoughts as they come. Thanks.
