Leadership is naturally part of every creature. I can’t imagine a ship without a captain, a team without a leader and a company without someone who the power of final decision is rest upon. I am beginning to understand and accept that we are politicize everything around us which family is beginning to become unexempted. After all, we are in democracy popularly known with the slogan of “government of the people, by the people and for the people; could this be true. Comically, some says democracy is demonstration of craziness; maybe, maybe not. But it seems, the comical definition is closer because many democratic decisions are becoming unreasonable related to the believes of another school of thought which says “politics is a game” and what I omitted there is that, they says it’s a dirty never a clean game.
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Even if we are beginning to politicize family leadership given everyone equal right, it then means the children have equal right just like the parents, as a result, they don’t have control over them even if they misbehave. But on a true democratic level, we appoint or elect leader. In the family, if we have to do that and we have to chose the best candidate, who deserve to lead, man or woman? This is just a mere analysis; it is natural to know by nature that men are created to lead the family. Although, we have few foolish men who have compromise their God given status, I am not talking about this group and not in support of those who think their status as a man is to do an undo at will negatively. In support of this as a Muslim, I always remind myself about a line in the last sermon of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) telling his followers never to enslave their wives or let me say women generally.
Great power comes with lots of responsibilities for those who are ready to be up to the task. In reality, as much as they are clamouring for equality, less than 5% of womanhood is ready to accept the equivalent responsibilities attached to it. Although, I knew that majority radical feminist are not ready to be under any control of a man, they prefer being alone having casual relationship here and there. Let me ask this somehow rhetorical question, what will be the end of such relationship? Despite the intentional no emotion attached from the beginning, as a human being, no matter how we may try to brilliantly work against some natural trait, we end up finding it coming to us if we handle such effort negatively; due to such situation, I know in most cases, the end of many of such relationship will never be friendly.
Who says there is no better way to achieve it than aggression? A radical feminist is assuming to be an atheist, if not, they will know there is a better way of asking for liberation for women. No reasonable man will think of enslaving woman for no reason, definitely any man who takes advantage of his physical energy or material resources to molest woman should be punished. It is the same with the same sex. If such go scot-free, we should know that it has nothing to do with being a man but the result of corruption in the land.
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If being successful means utilizing your talents, skills and resources at your disposal beyond any other thing. Women should know they are crossing the border in search of gold mine with a token from sales of their land at home with massive gold deposit. Women are gifted but not in term of physical energy, any woman with such is an exemption. Many of the so called radical feminists amass their resources by utilizing their God given feminine trait although telling the world otherwise. As a woman, a mere comparison will tell you there is joy and peace of mind in being humble and supportive than asking for equality/dominance which doesn’t deprive you of crying out for help if any man is trying to take advantage of you.
My sympathy is just for the copycats who are trying to be like the few celebrities camouflaging with their little fame they are fortunate to earn radically promoting the ungodly act in other to earn more money and fame; sincerely, it is a selfish agenda. Just as the masses suffered from decision or indecision of few leaders, it is the less privileged among them that will pay the price. Woman! You better wise up, don’t be decisive to trade your gold for sand, according to a popular singer, “you should not allow someone who have got his food burnt to monitor your food on fire”
I can go on and on, but before I rest my pen on this issue let me remind you that gender equality or dominance is a fallacy that will never see the light of the day. It is an attempt that will cause more harm than good. To end it, let me quote a title from the popular reggae artist, Bob Marley that says, “No Woman No Crime”. Meaning, apart from women single-handedly committing crime one way or another, majority crime committed by men are initiated by women and in many instances their effort to satisfy women insatiable resources demand in other to gain their acceptance which many women are able to achieve through their natural seductive power that can be use to make the world a better place.