It is thanks to Hive account@rhondak that I saw this post at all (three months late!).
Bless you, your brother, and all your loved ones.
Wishing you well, always, and for years to come, in this crazy world.
Rhonda's still struggling, too, with health issues, and I pray pray pray for everyone, even though prayers seem to have no efficacy at all... we have to keep moving, keep hoping, keep living.
(My sister is dying of cancer, and I've fallen off the face of the earth, focusing on little else...)