Well congratulations to you and your lovely bride! Thank you for giving us all insight of what a Korean wedding/marriage is like. Not much different from other traditional weddings, really. I've been there done that. I married in the 80s and 18 years and 2 daughters later, I became divorced. So I am not one qualified to give any marital advice. But if I were to do it all over again, I'd be more tolerable of the in-laws, less worried over the bills (if that's at all possible) and less worried over where he's at when he's not around ... oh and also never stop treating him like he's my best friend. Wish you both marital bliss and good luck!