It's a choice.
Circumstances will come and go - and you will respond. Your ability to win in every situation is dependent on you and you alone.
Guys Sh!* is coming - you know it. Don't let its terms define how you live. Take it on with all of yourself. Winning is not avoiding pain - rather bringing all of yourself to the table no matter what. If people are jerks remove yourself from the relationship. If your work sucks, don't allow it to make you suck.
You are powerful, if you choose to be.
I learned it straight from my King...
Choose to win friends...