I want to talk about how to become more confident by caring less about other people’s opinions of you.
Do you worry too much what others think?
It is good to be a sensitive person and consider other people’s feelings and thoughts… However, you need balance. You should be able to act according to your thoughts and feelings and not get trapped seeking to please others.
– Worrying about the opinions of other people will lower your self confidence because:
You will behave how other people expect you to – you will not be true to yourself. You will feel you are denying yourself the right to live according to who you are.
You will have problems relaxing in stressful situations because you will be wondering what others are thinking about you – this will make it likely you will make mistakes and feel unsure of yourself.
Speaking in public may become a nightmare – you will focus on the audience rather than on your performance. You may feel the attention as they stare. This will make you nervous and uncomfortable when you need to be relaxed.
You will make decisions according to other’s expectations and ignore your own wishes and feelings. When you feel unhappy you may blame yourself. Blame can even become self hate…
You are giving others power because you are letting them decide what you should be
How to stop worrying what others think about you
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