She returns from work and meets you already home, seated and watching soccer, with your favorite magazine in your left hand and remote by your right hand side.
She returns from work and you're not yet back, without taking off her work cloths, she dashes into the kitchen to put up dinner before you're back.
Food is ready, you eat and dashes to bed, you want some loving up and she declines.. It happens for days. She's losing her glow and she gets easily angered, and you're asking what's the matter? Uncle, why are you not sensitive?
I know the woman's place is in the kitchen, that's how we came to meet it, it doesn't matter if she works and brings in the highest pay.... But she's still human and gets tired too.
When she's drained, she might suppress it so you don't say she's complaining, it will definitely blow out someday and it won't be beautiful.
Your Royal Husbandness, there's nothing demeaning for you to help your wife in the kitchen. You might not even do anything, but the little fact that you're in the kitchen with her after a hard day's job is a consolation for her.
Even if she's a house wife, the task of taking care of even one child is already hectic, if you doubt me, try it for few hours.
This has nothing to do with equal rights, I'm talking about love here, about helping your better half and supporting her as she makes your house a home.
If you get back from work before your wife, it's a good thing you help her out with the kitchen. Don't wait for her to return and start running around to make you food when you have two hands and can as well cook, it's you being inconsiderate.
Again, instead of asking her for some loving at night, offer to give her some massage, it will be more soothing to her, and while at it, try to find out how her day went. Even housewives have their bad days, we never know which inlaw came by to say something hurtful to her, or a bad phone call or a fight with a friend... It could be anything.
She is nagging because she has a lot suppressed, that's the frown on her face, that's the dragging of her feet, that's the slamming of the door, that's the hiss and sigh, that's the tantrum, that's the expressionless face, that's the forlorn look. A lot is buried inside, she wants to talk about them but scared of being misunderstood, help her let loose Mister.
You're not a husband when you can't understand your wife's pains and struggles, and rather pass it off as "she's a nagging woman, my wife nags alot". Find out why she's nagging, find out what's bugging her, and work it out with her.
You see that woman, she's not your paid chef, she's not your live-in domestic staff, she's your wife and mother of your kids.... She deserves all the help she can get from you, and that's the prove of your love for her.
