Personal differences usually come to play in determining what characteristics or attributes we find appealing in the opposite sex but there are a few non-compromising ones. These are attributes every girl wants in a man:
One: Height
Most women want their men to be tall, someone they can literally look up to. Like my friend Nina would say, “If he ain’t tall, there ain’t no point to it.” Giving it a deeper look, I realized that most fantasy romance books almost always made out the Prince Charming to be a man who “towered over his lady” and she had to “stand on the tip of her toes to kiss him.” What more can I say? Tall is sexy guys!
Two: Funny men are the new kind of attractive
One of the surest ways to know if a lady is attracted to you is by checking how she reacts to your jokes. If she laughs easily and freely, there’s a good chance she really likes you. Like my girlfriend will keep telling me, “he never makes other girls laugh this much!” I guess you know what she means.
Three: Generosity
Every lady likes to be spoiled no matter the independent air she puts up most of the time. So a man who is able to give freely to his lady will soon have her eating out of his hands. Just so you know, when your girlfriend convenes with her friend, they are discussing whose boyfriend buys the most gifts for who. Trust me on that.
Four: Full of surprises
Do you know what makes people boring and relationships to end most of the time? When they become too predictable! Thus a spontaneous man would always be attractive to most women. Today he plans a sudden trip to Hawaii. A few weeks later, he wants to go rock climbing. When he returns from the office, he’s bearing a bouquet of flowers. Some mornings, he leaves a poem under her pillow. And so on and so forth. You catch my drift right?
Five: Intelligence
The world is advancing and the nerds have become the new cool. And as a result of this, most ladies want the brainy guy; the guy who knows something about almost anything. People who are attracted to intelligent people are called sapiosexuals and they are most likely to be intelligent themselves. Intelligence rocks big time! My girlfriend tells me that whenever I am going on about some deep subject, maybe on science, politics or business, she usually just want to hold my face and ravish those sexy lips of mine!
Six: Personal hygiene
This is so important it is non-negotiable. Clean and well dressed guys are hot as hell! Ask any lady around. Personal hygiene tells a lot about a guy than most people realize. When you take good care of yourself it shows that you respect yourself and have a healthy dose of self esteem.
When a man has these six attributes, the ladies are going to be trailing after him like insects to a ripened fruit. Don’t say I didn’t tell you!
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