This few days I have been under a roof with a 29year old lady and my eyes have kinda seen a lot. I think from what I have observed and experienced I can now write a listicle about what it feels like living with a 29-year old lady.
However, I would like to state that I have no intension of generalizing in any way. This is me simply giving you something to wrap your mind around for a Sunday package this beautiful evening.
And here it is (To the man reading this post) "5 Things you should know about living with a 29-year old African Lady."
- She is 29-year old but
She is yet to believe she is 29. She is aware of her feminity and can be an explorer in ways most men are unaware of. She knows what gets the men coming. If she is a christian (like the one I am living with) she is careful to minimalize the signals she sends out. And if she isn't the spirikoko, She enjoys the power, and places no restrictions to the signals she sends.
In this age, she would lure you if she likes you. If she isn't certain about how she feels towards you, she will lure you in only to satisfy her curiosity. Most men make the mistake of thinking they are in control. Usually the woman is the one with the control.
2 She is sexually A C T I V E
This means that she would respond to the signals you send. If you touch her in any way, she would interprete it consciously. And if you keep at it for too long than necessary, she would start to reciprocate the signals.
Do not think that because she goes to church and speaks in tongues she has suddenly lost her FEMINITY or humanity. She is sexually active and even more so than most that get hit on the regular.
She places a boundary and sometimes when emotions becomes heightened, she gives in to any... She feels guilty afterwards. So, if you aren't ready for any form of commitment and you aren't well skilled in the 'Art of Playboy,' then you want to stay away from her because she isn't that kind of a lady. She will pray you into muddy gutters.
3 She can almost tell
She can almost tell when a man wants her for free. Do not think you are smart.
When you do have her for free, do not think you did out of sheer smartness. If you were smart you wouldn't have 'fallen' for her vulnerability. Her FEMINITY is her power and it is expressed in her ability to appear vulnerable even when she is only trying to lure you in to clear her throat that is clogged up with raging desires and emotions.
She lets you have her because she is curious about your masculinity. She is aware of her feminity and is not scared to make that move because she feels she is 29 and can have you if she so pleases.
4 She doesn't need your money but...
Be kind to her. Buy her stuff. Usually, the money spent on the things you are getting isn't as important as the kindness that is expressed. Just be yourself around her. She has seen all sort of fake guys flock around her. You don't want to come off as fake. She would resent you.
5 Always keep a tab
You don't want her thinking a lot. If she is emotionally stressed, she would end up shutting you out. She wants to talk about her goals and aspirations more so about her pain and confusion. So always keep a tab on her emotion and thoughts. She would open up easily when you ask questions like "what's bothering you?" "Where did your beauty go? You have been thinking yea?"... All these are ways to keep a tab on her thoughts.
Mind you, she doesn't feel obligated to share her space with you but he would if you come off as fun, loving humorously annoying. hehehe truth be told.
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Don't get me wrong, this is just my observation based on the lady I am sharing an apartment with.
Do share you thoughts with me and let's help each other expand our thought space.