So, what you have clearly outlined is that no man is welcome in women's safe spaces.
Men and women are sexual creatures. Women have been the subject of "centuries of sexual harassment" because men are the ones who have had to get up the courage to go ask the women to dance, to date, to marriage...
So, either women start creating a space where it is appropriate to ask them out, or everywhere is an appropriate place to hit on women.
Unless of course you mean for men to just go away.
And, if men just go away, they will leave women living in cold, dark grass huts.
Make no mistake, you have ruled out all men from ever being in your safe spaces. If you do not see it, then study logic, and then come back and read your post again.
I understand very well what you are trying to do. And, if you continue with this subterfuge, you will rue the day. You are saying that I only want to be asked out by top level men. The bottom 60% of men need not even bother applying, so go away. And so, these men are going away. And EVERYTHING that you feel is part of living in a modern world will go with them.
I suggest you work out things like proper places for male-female interactions to happen. And these places have to be frequented by women.
RE: Can male allies have a place in safe spaces for women?