Keep writing these, please! They're adding to the massive healing I've been doing my whole life around this subject. However, after pushing out a baby, the vagina sadly does not return to its previous size. Close, but not quite. Never so "tight" again. Of course, I think we deserved to be fucking WORSHIPPED for giving birth, for this miracle of life that changes everything about us as women. Yeah. I have way too much to say about this, and will stop before I write an entire post in your comments, but hope you can feel the gratitude. More healthy sex-talk is one of many things the world needs!