Take care of your heart and take care of your mouth, because pain from oral slipping is more painful than slipping your legs when you fall.
An injured heart because of your inaccuracy in saying of course the pain will be very imprinted, even though thousands of apologies have been sweetly thrown out of your mouth.
And one thing is certain why you cannot speak badly or carelessly to others is fear that something similar will happen to you, because Your words can be God returned to you.
Therefore, wherever and whenever it is still wise to keep your oral, do not say anything to anyone, because it is very easy for God to inflict as you say to yourself.
As with bad prayers, when you pray for others with evil, it can be a bad prayer that God will offer you.
So try your heart to always be motivated to say that is fine, even though your situation is now very hateful because he wronged you.
Why? In order for only goodness to bounce back on you, after all when you give in and silence does not mean that God also stays silent, but surely he plans something beautiful for you.
Remember, as saying it was part of the prayer, then make sure that only a good speech and useful coming out of the oral mu, even if you are in bad condition because the good deeds of others.
Do not slander her, if you can not pray for themselves, then pray for yourself, so be patience, sincerity, and keuatan to accept everything gracefully.
As well as if you are not able to say well, then wise yourself to remain silent, because being silent and giving in does not mean you are weak and cannot fight it, it's just that you are strong enough to be patient with anger.
The point is, even though your position is now tyrannized, don't let you say badly, because if you get the same thing from someone else, you certainly won't accept it.
The real reason is, whoever is good or bad even if he is treated badly, of course he will not accept it, moreover it is clear that he is good, which is why you should always be wise in your verbal not to say bad things about other people or people other.