Ever wondered how you walk into a company of friends having a conversation and they pick on someone you know so well?
They say things that are untrue to you because you've gotten to know them better and see beyond the signals sent.
WHAT SIGNALS ARE YOU SENDING ?
Actions speak, louder than words they say, so do your inactions.
The things you neglect, the things you don't do, what do they say about you?
The things we leave out register in people's subconscious; the things we could have done but didn't do.
So your wife knows you give her money, she knows you spend time with her, but then she say's you're not caring
Because she's taken a mental note of times she needed your help and you were oblivious of the fact that help was necessary.
It could be that cold winter when you didn't even know you had a spare jacket you could have assisted the old lady sitting besides you with or the times you neglected the pains she felt to rant about your unaccomplished day.
It could be the chores you intentionally leave out.
It could be the people you do not deliberately ignore, but ignored still
It's so much of the things YOU DO NOT DO
The welcoming smile you failed to wear that sent a note of discomfort to the now seated visitor.
The subtle grunts you give when you come across people you feel are below your standard.
Inactions are a function of the you on your inside.
Your inactions go out to form an aura, a way people begin to see you, from the things you do not do
Make a deliberate effort to shape your aura
Make a deliberate effort to do more than less of what you should.
Like listening
A lot of people listen with prejudice without even knowing, but their inactions sell them out.
-The things they choose to reply too
-The tone they didn't use
-The issue they left out
Deliberately watch your inactions and make actions of them, the things you leave out passes a message across.