I saw you a while ago working in your office but now you're in your house, you're still working?
Oooppss! Am I right?
If you are a person who brought paper works in your house, this is for you.
I will be speaking from my heart that's why I am hoping to touch your hearts.
YOUR CHILD NEEDS YOU
When was the last time that you've talked about the improvements of your child in school? or when was the last time that you've talked about the problems of your child in school? If it was yesterday, I salute you. But if it was a month ago it means that you need to catch up.
The world is now digital, that means your child interacts with different individuals in school who are influenced by so much technology.
Imagine your child goes to their classroom everyday with his 24 classmates. Yesternight, 5 out of 24 were able to watch violence in the news, 5 out of 24 were able to watch adult programs on a television, 5 out of 24 were able to watch porn sites, and so on. This is not a typical classroom set-up but this may be true to some schools. The acts of those pupils mentioned may be influenced by what they saw last night and they will be interacting to your child in a day. If your child will be attending 10 months in school that will somehow have a roughly 200 numbers of school days. That means, your child has plenty of informations already. Take note, that still was in the dimension of influence or interaction in school and I didn't mention about his own first hand experiences with technology or whatsoever.
Would you dare to leave your child in that situation? or would you like to help and guide him?
That is the reason why, you must leave your work in your office because your child at night in your home is your new client.
Let's put yourself to the situation of your child. What would you feel if you're a child who can't see the care of listening from your parents? What would you feel if your parents will work more with papers which doesn't talk? Won't you envy? The papers didn't talk but it seems that your mom and dad love it.
Do the favor for your child starting today!
I understand that you are working for them but if their life will be lost, what's the purpose of working then?
It was really advisable that you'll talk to your child more often. Personally, I urged you to talk with them every night.
Praise them with good words while you are having your family meals and correct them after meals if they have done mistakes.
YOUR PARTNER MISSES YOU
You've been seeing with your partner everyday!
It doesn't matter if you'll be working in your house because you are still there. Your presence is enough.
Does it really make sense?
Having your presence is not enough. It is the love that he or she wanted. The love that you have dreamt of together when you have just started building your own family. The sweetness that you've shown is the one that he/she have missed and it's not your presence.
You can't cross two rivers at the same time which literally means, you can't serve two masters at a time.
"I have plenty of work to do! If I can't do it I'll lost my job! If I lost my job I can't give what my family needs! I have priorities!- you say.
Well, I can't blame you of having priorities. Actually, I still salute you of sacrificing your own happiness for the reason that your family can still benefit with your sacrifices in the near future. However, I would just like to share you some words I have known from the people I have met who's also doing the same.
- Your company will never be there until your last breath. Your company will grow and will develop for a thousands of century that means, it will stay there but you yourself is a human who has an expiration date. Your body will be deteriorating and will never be developing as you grow older. The only people that you'll seek in that time is your husband/wife and your children; and
- Your papers will never take care of you if you'll become sick, it can't also substitute the smile, hugs and kisses of your wife/husband and of your children.
YOU ARE A HUMAN
You are just a human eventhough you are the smartest or the most skilled employee in your company. Your body is composed of cells which needs to be replenished everynight. Your body is not a machine that if it doesn't work, then you'll replace it. Your physical self needs rest.
You are just human and you need to reflect with your life. If you'll be spending that time for work, when would be the best time for you to talk to yourself? Yourself needs you also to regenerate again. Yourself needs you to intertwine your soul, heart and mind.
You are just a human and you need God! It's not you who always controls the situation. It's God by the way. Think that you can't do all things without Him. That's why you need to stop working at home and do it in your office because God will be working with you together tomorrow. He's in control.
HOW TO SOLVE?
If your job always stimulates situations that will push you to work at home then, it must be having a 100% Toxicity Level.
Quit and Look for another Career that suits your family and self needs.
In the end, money is just a means to live on Earth but it will never become the meaning of life.
I am hoping to read your thoughts and comments below. Please feel free to share your agreements or disagreements. I hope you share it to the people who's having the same routine above.
I hope I have made an impact!
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