This is a quote from the actor Keanue Reeves that I really appreciate and can relate to. When we experience grief it is very intense and difficult to process. People just want it to end, but the lesson is that it does not end. That does not mean it wont get better though, over time it changes. you will always feel the loss and want to see your loved ones again, but it changes and becomes more manaegable and eventually will allow you to celebrate their life without resulting in sadness.