Well here in Venezuela we talk a lot with phrases and one of them is "mistakes are learned" and maybe even though it was a mistake to trust a neighbor, but it was the mistake of doing what he did, he does not know what was It is a mistake to lose the trust of a close person. I imagine that you recovered multiplied what you lost for being a fair person and even learned more than when it comes to money should not be trusted or your neighbors.
RE: Fool me once. Shame on you.