Today is one of those days that I ask myself that question ..., when you open up to the people you love most, you get to feel a kind of tranquility or serenity when you do not feel that you are alone in this adventure that we call life and that there are people who truly they understand, but ... what happens when they get used to what you are?, that you are there for them, to show them how important they are to you and you have no doubt ... will a decline begin? in that feeling ?.
I really do not know, I ask these questions for the simple fact that I realized that when you show a lot of you to a person, it's fine ..., you do it selflessly for the love you feel towards the individual without expecting anything in return .
However, when the other interested party begins to behave in a more closed way with a sincerely hurt, that does not tell you things, that wants to overcome all alone / or through other friends or people who have just appeared in his life then, This does not mean that it is bad, the bad starts when you hide important things from someone that you say you want very much, even saying that you love him
Even if you say it and your actions are consistent with what you say most of the time, there are specific cases or ways of acting at certain times that can hurt a lot and change the perception of people with respect to you, making you doubt even a little: Do you really love me?
Feelings never change, evolve or just stay there and stop growing or decreasing, that if .. one is left with the essence of the person that marked you all your life !!, is it worth it to complain when you take that kind of attitude? I think so, but as Aristotle said "it is easy to feel pain and be angry, the difficult thing is to get angry at the right level, with the right words, at the right time".
Putting aside pride to tell you that something has changed inside of him / her towards you can be very painful for you. Not so much to say, but to hear the answer you do not want to hear, but that does not mean we should not do it, you have to be determined, arm yourself with courage, take a deep breath -1,2,3 ....- "Boom" , It's time to talk!
n order to know if something really happens, do not be afraid to stay alone or alone, that is not freedom, full freedom is to feel that you are loved and not have these insecurities inside your mind, so cheers! Talk to that person ..
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