No matter how see yourself others see you different. Your ego won’t save you. Neither will your ignorance. Prepare for a rude awakening if you catch your friends talking behind your back. Much worse with enemies. Prepare to puke.
Reality is all about impression and perception. Some people judge you purely based on first impressions. You get that first chance to present yourself in a favorable fashion. Lots of factors will determine how you are vetted in their eyes. Could be ruinous or a winning moment for you. Perception is harder to shake. The rumor mill is constantly grinding. One day you are an adorable BFF and the next you are a trashy slut all because of social media over-sharing. How people see you changes rapidly in an Internet driven reality. How we are perceived determine job prospects and social mobility in many circles. Reputation can make or break you.
Ultimately accepting the real you and knowing true your purpose in existence is a lot more important than what people think you are. You alone hold the keys to your immediate reality. Your level of confidence is your armor. Your awareness is your guide. Stride confident but always cognizant of the fickle nature of people. Grow thicker skin as the day unfolds. Secrets revealed are much less agonizing. Gossip can only strangle you if you let it.