Your thoughts on love and feelings relate very well with my blog post “Human Emotion Physically Shapes Reality.” Thinking about them together leads me on to the greatest commandment according to the Christ. That is for man to love God with all his soul, all his heart and with all his strength. And the second part of this greatest commandment, is for man to love his neighbor as he loves himself.
The title of my post “Human Emotion Physically Shapes Reality” is the conclusion of a number of scientific experiments posted in https://www.lifecoachcode.com/2017/02/26/emotion-shapes-reality/. As emotions and feelings are volitional attributes of man then it must be true that man is solely responsible for and the creator of his own reality. Is it any wonder then that the most important commandment according to Christ, is about love?
The commandment presupposes that man must love himself first before he can love others. Thus I fully agree with your thought that we ourselves become love itself. It seems as if it is not possible to love others if you don’t love yourself first.
Love therefore becomes the primary and ultimate essence of human life and reality.

Human Emotion Physically Shapes Reality!
(By Vic Buaquen)
Reference: https://www.lifecoachcode.com/2017/02/26/emotion-shapes-reality/