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MY PERSONAL OPINION!!! DON'T MISUNDERSTAND IT.
Priorities have been misplaced and social awareness especially for the financially unstable individuals should be stressed on so as to etch in the brain of every individuals that many crucibles are to be taken into consideration for social attraction.
The event that took place yesterday between two prestigious families in my country Nigeria prompted this article of mine as a result of peoples opinion on social media, regarding the event that unfolded yesterday. Talking about the solemnization of holy matrimony between Miss Fatima Dangote daughter of Aliko Dangote, African richest man and Mr. Abubakar jamil, Son of Mohammed Abubakar, former inspector general of police of Nigeria.
This event sprouted several like questions on the social media, such as WHY DO THE RICH MARRY THE RICH? CAN'T THE RICH MARRY THE POOR?(just as in hollywood, nollywood and bollywood..lol), MUST MARRIAGES BE BETWEEN LIKE FAMILIES???.
MY ANSWERS[my opinion].
Friendships, Relationships and Marriages only exist between like minds, don't get it the other way round because the like minds i mean here is similarities in thoughts, talents, perception etc. We should be aware that ATTRACTION precedes FEELINGS which then paves way for LOVE to be initiated. Am not disputing the fact that Money and financial ability is a Yardstick for choosing a relationship and a spouse especially for the financially stable but it is not the only social tool of attraction, other social tools of attractions includes; Intelligence, talent and physical beauty, because if you posses any or a combination of this qualities you are socially rich and wealthy, hence wealth is not the only yardstick for social attraction.
The big question we should all ask ourselves is WHAT CAN I DO EXCEPTIONALLY!!! Have you got any quality that can differentiate you from the crowd, what is it you can do an individual that can make you outstanding, unique and distinct from every other person. As a research fanatic i have come to realize from my research that what attract wealthy individuals or people from wealthy families is far from your financial status because they can personally build you up financially rather what they scout out for is uniqueness, all they want is that individual with exceptional qualities which people of their caliber lack such as when ever you are presented to their likes and families they would have no option to accept you as you have what they lack or what strikes their attention.
It is not a story or fairy tale that as an individuals of you lack finance,talent and beauty then your flaws is what people with financial strength see.
As a man if you are seated with the daughter of one of the richest men in your country, what will you portray in her presence, if you are invited over for dinner, will be cold all through the section or will you raise a topic that will get everyone at the dinner listening to you.
Spend and invest time to build yourself socially, if you lack financial strength, ensure you posses intelligence and talent, if you don't then pray to God to endow you with dauntless people. Don't feel inferior when you lack money because it is not the only social though of attraction.
Till next time steemians, Much love here from NIGERIA.
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