One amazing thing about trusting God for marriage and working according to His plans is that He will not only give you the happy marriage that you desire, He also ensures that you get ALL YOU NEED in order to make the happy marriage He has given to you successful.
Oh somebody needs to understand this quickly before you go and make a mess out of your gift;
God does not give successful marriages, no He doesn't, the success of your marriage is not His to provide, but yours. God's job is to provide all that you need to create the happy marriage that you seek. That includes a spouse, the right mentality, the word working actively inside you, the opportunities to excel, the beautiful people that will help spur you on and encourage you in your trials. Your job is to constantly make an effort to turn all of these provision into a success story.
He provides you with a blank paper, ink, colour, crayons, eraser, markers, and all the art materials that you need to make a beautiful design, and then He stands back and says PAINT!
A scripture says that "for all that we need has already been provided unto us.", the question now is what do you want to do with that provision? How do you want to manage all He has given to you to create your own success story?
Don't wait around for God to come and help you forgive your partner, help you apologize when you err, help you beautify your marriage bed and also teach you how to make love, naaa, all what you need has already been provided, you have all the right tools as a believer, how you choose to use it is entirely up to you.
Most times God puts the right people in our lives but we end up making a mess out of it, and we blame Him for the failure we have achieved, Adam and Eve is a beautiful example, just picture a farmer trying to fly an aeroplane, it will be completely useless in his hands because he neither knows the HOW nor the value of what he has, this is how some marriages end up, you wait on God to give you a spouse, then you wait on Him to teach you how to love the spouse He has gifted you.
Keep sticking and waiting on God guys, trust me, it is the best marriage insurance you can ever make, not only does He put the solitude in families, He also provides all they would ever need to make sure that family stays successful, I mean, He has a perfect maintenance plan for your marriage, isn't that just lovely? Oh how I just love the Lord.
