If some throws trash into a flower bed, the flower bed wouldn't turn into a trash place so easily. Similarly, no matter how many flowers you throw into the trash, it won't turn into a flower bed. How are you gonna define this situation? Trash remains trash just like coal stays black.
Nothing can't be justified so easily. Suppose a person is a good person, kind-hearted but one day he made a mistake suddenly. Now, how are you gonna judge that individual? Would you judge him for his mistake or would you consider it just a mistake?
Think about it.
I know there will be different opinions and explanations.
Human characteristics are like that, some characters and habits can't be changed until the person himself doesn't want to be changed. Human doesn't like changed, it's hard to accept changes because changes are not comfortable. Changes bring challenges in life but some changes are good. Do you think you can change a person so easily? No, you can't, it's foolishness if you try to change somebody or you expect the changes. You can't change someone until they want to change themselves or are ready for changes.
It's difficult to understand human characteristics just like it's difficult to understand human psychology. Exceptions happen, but most people don't change their certain characters. When the body and brain develop, people change and certain characteristics build automatically. But we also have to understand that our background, culture, and surroundings influence our characteristics as well.
I don't like changes, I am not ready to accept changes but in some situations, I am forced to accept changes. Certain changes make me sick. But for the sake of good life, sometimes I have to change my way of my thinking. Instead of being stubborn, I like to think of situations in an optimistic way and that helps a lot.
I have been judged by people a lot, especially when I was a kid. I was bullied and certain sort of characters had developed inside me. It was fear, I was scared.
We judge people easily because we think a person's characteristics represent their personality. Different people have different opinions, we all are judgmental at some point because it's easy to judge. We like to judge others. We love to point out other's faults and characteristics instead of looking at ourselves. We love to give our opinion, comment, and criticism but are we ready to accept the same opinion, criticism about ourselves. I guess we are not ready when it comes to questioning ourselves.
Sometimes I asked myself about myself, sometimes I think about my characteristics. Am I hurting someone? Am I scary? Am I a flower or a piece of trash?
I am leaving this question for you.
~FrenzyFire