It’s easy to put the blame on somebody else.
It’s easy to say my parents didn’t have money so I am broke. It’s easy to say I was born in a bad neighbourhood so I am weak. It’s easy to say I wish had this or I wish had that.
It’s hard to get up and say I fucked up.
However once you do take the blame for your own actions, a magical thing happens.
You just did a very difficult thing. From that point onwards things actually start to get easy. Easier that it ever was.
Take the blame. It’s not that bad.