Many people say that life always has a lot of impermanence, and the ups and downs are the test of heaven to everyone.
Yes, smooth sailing, most of them are just a luxury. At a certain age, the years are always on schedule, the hardships are always uncomfortable, and loneliness is always sudden.
Sometimes, in the face of difficulties, there is no one who can ask for help. People in life come and go, pass by, leave less, be indifferent, and feel less.
We have to admit that the road to life is destined to be single-handed. No one has been with us all the time, just as no flower will bloom forever.
Insufficient mentality, suffering from discrimination by peers, thanks to the care of the mother, the companionship of the lover.
But then the mother died, the lover left, the friend sacrificed, they only accompanied him for a very short time, more often he was walking, running, swaying, moving forward.
The older I feel, the more I can rely on ourselves. The grievances in my heart can only be said to myself, the difficulty of life, can only be one person, the road of life, can only go alone.
Because no one except us can be relied on by us forever. Those who give birth to us will be old, and those who love us will go. From the beginning to the end, we are the only ones who face this world’s glory and sorrow. The ups and downs of life can only be experienced by ourselves.
Therefore, we must walk up on our own path, as the saying goes:
"Think of yourself as a team, recruiting your own mind and mind, not discouraged."
Only by learning one person to face the suffering of life can you truly learn to be independent.
When we no longer complain about our destiny because of the suffering of life, we no longer feel lonely because of our solitude, and face life with a smile.
I believe that no matter if someone is accompanying us, we are already strong enough to face the test of life alone. Don't complain about the injustice of fate, don't be overwhelmed by the frustrations of life.
Sometimes, we think that a person can not cross the hurdle, a bite, may have already crossed the past, we thought that waiting for the sunshine, back, has also dispelled the long night.
Looking back, I found that those difficult days are actually the cornerstone of my bright future. Lonely brings us not only the gloom and loss, but also the calmness and firmness that gradually precipitated.
People always have to experience some ups and downs in their lives, and there is nothing to blame. You just have to go all the way, thorns and thorns, and one day, you will go through those sufferings alone.
If you want to wear a crown, you must bear the weight. I believe that fate will not live up to every man who runs hard. The end of the rainstorm is a grassland.
Promise yourself, the rest of your life, whether you are accompanied by someone on the road, you must learn to walk alone, ok