Talking to your Ex.

So just now I was arguing about whether talking to your Ex is a bad thing.
Honestly, me writing about it made me
realize it is not really a good idea.
Not when you know your partner is not cool with it.

False Hope.

Talking to your ex can create false hope that one day you both can get back together. Most times doing this is not always the best thing especially when you know you can’t get back together.

I have had a fair share of this.
I broke up my relationship of five years.
Breaking up a relationship of five years, you know how serious the issue must have been.

I wanted to still be friends with him.
But no he wasn’t having none of that.
He was always talking about ways for us to get back together.
And I knew we couldn’t.

I always say this talking to someone you know you can’t be with is a bad idea.
You will just keep hurting each other.

When you are lonely or upset, try to resist the urge to reach out to your ex.

comparing your new love to your ex.

You have to give your new relationship a chance. This is why you have to let go of anything that has to do with your past relationship. Talking to your ex can make you compare someone new with them.
Try as hard as you can to give up and move on.

A new person might feel uncomfortable with you talking to your ex.

This is what causes issues in some relationships. A new person won’t be cool with you talking to your ex. He or she would just assume you are still holding on.
Don’t complicate things by giving your new love a reason to think you might still have a thing for your ex.
Making them think this is never the best thing. As nobody ever wants to feel like they are another option.

Let the past be in the past and focus on new beginnings.