Girls like to talk about problems, and by talking about them work through them with a sympathetic ear. I'll vent, gush out my feelings and look for righteous anger to echo my own. I don't want a problem solved; I know the fucking answer already. I want someone to share with me in my outrage so I can validate my feelings with someone else. It feels good to share the frustration.
Much of my blog writing is this type of venting. I thought I was doing a good job of venting my issues then suggesting a fix in the prose. I didn't realize that it came across as "inner pain between the lines." I'm sorry; but it was so off base I can't even.
So I realized that men like to solve problems. Listen to the woman in your life and when they're complaining about a work situation or telling you about their friend's stupid choices, and the answer to solve the problem is so clear, so obvious and so correct to you, let me give you advice. DO NOT SOLVE THE FUCKING PROBLEM!
I know it is infuriating. I know it is like the hardest thing in the fucking world to restrain yourself and pretend that the story makes sense. Say, "awww, man, that sucks." Or share the righteous rage and anger, not try to "help." Fuck that is annoying.
So In writing about my tired hands, my disinterest in writing, has nothing to do with my inner turmoil, instead it is because I was writing too much and my hands got sore. It is freaking beautiful outside so my routine is all jacked up and I've been finding it more difficult to be motivated to stay inside.
I'm looking for words of encouragement, like from 
So today I got a whole bunch of writing in using voice dictation. I went back and reread some of the stuff from yesterday and what a mess of punctuation and different words. I almost think it is slower than typing.
Voice and typing bring different sorts of text. I like my dialogue with voice better than typed, but it requires such a load of language to be effective without going through and editing it to shit. I almost think it isn't worth it.
But I used it to give my fingers a welcome break and realized with mistakes and all it was well worth the time to set up and use.
I got Sergio and Bree into his backyard after dinner, and put in a really funny thing an actual friend told me. We were out the other night and she was telling me a story about guys downtown.
"Every time we're fucking, doesn't matter who it was, like in the last year all of them put their thumb in my ass whenever we went doggy."
I couldn't believe it. I don't think when I was going nuts on nuts at the clubs any of the guys were that bold. She isn't slutty or whorish at all, or gives any indication about wanting it there, but seems to be some cultural change in the wind. Are girls getting more bold with butt sex? Or are guys getting more brazen? Maybe it is the thing to do now; put that thumb up that girl's ass whether she's ready for it or not.
So I worked that into the story! Haha, good stuff. After dinner, Sergio takes Bree to his backyard shed and the view he has facing west. They watch the sunset and make out while the stars come out. I'm going to write her fucking him on top tomorrow, and he'll turn her around so they can both fuck while watching a meteor shower over the desert.
I've realized my stories are more of a slow burn. I've started writing more "romance" instead of the "jump right into the action" (sex) that I used to. I think it is because I've started to write more story than fucking. They get more page reads.
Which reminds me, "Rec Center Backdoor" is doing terribly, even though it is literally a whole book of nine short anal sex stories where we get right into the action in about 5,000 words each. That book should be killing it, though after it was adult dungeoned, I had to rework the title, redo the blurb and change things around. SUCK! Why can't we get equal view time as everything else on the zon?
I wish there was a better place to publish my erotica stories.
Well, this new story is all about the younger girl babysitter for the older neighbor's sex fun time. He's going to fuck her virgin ass and she's going to like it. Guess what? He'll stick his thumb in her butt during sex and they'll laugh. I can't wait to write the scene.